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Dontgetit4 ( new member #83048) posted at 1:20 AM on Friday, March 31st, 2023
Other posters said this thread was going to devolve into "bh' bad! Ww' good!" Apparently it happens whenever there's a thread like this
Wow
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TheEnd ( member #72213) posted at 2:09 AM on Friday, March 31st, 2023
That's not what has happened here at all.
This thread is shameful.
Dontgetit4 ( new member #83048) posted at 2:16 AM on Friday, March 31st, 2023
A bh just wants, not deserves or demands, sex from his wife, who liked doing these sexual acts with someone else during the marriage.
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 5:04 AM on Friday, March 31st, 2023
Dontgetit4, Maybe she didn't enjoy them. Maybe she just put up with the sex acts in order to get the flirtation that might go along with it.
It's easy to show hate.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Dontgetit4 ( new member #83048) posted at 5:43 AM on Friday, March 31st, 2023
I don't know what I'm hating
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66charger ( member #69471) posted at 6:05 AM on Friday, March 31st, 2023
Love disguised as hate.
A man is standing on the railroad tracks with a 50 car train barreling down on him. He flips out his laptop and post a thread questioning the speed, direction and velocity of the train.
Multiple wise ones chime in, explaining the equations and counseling patience.
In the distance a group of MEN, with a touch of hellfire are shouting to the guy.
DUDE, GET THE FUCK OFF THE TRACKS.
That is not hate.
The vitriol against that speech is.
For shame indeed.
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Stevesn ( member #58312) posted at 10:55 AM on Friday, March 31st, 2023
AN
How did the initial sex therapy session go? You should also be a part of some of those sessions.
How is it going sitting in on her IC?
I wish you well on this journey.
fBBF. Just before proposing, broke it off after her 2nd confirmed PA in 2 yrs. 9 mo later I met the wonderful woman I have spent the next 30 years with.
HouseOfPlane ( member #45739) posted at 12:41 PM on Friday, March 31st, 2023
A man is standing on the railroad tracks with a 50 car train barreling down on him.
The train already passed.
DDay 1986: R'd, it was hard, hard work.
“Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?”
― Mary Oliver
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 2:13 PM on Friday, March 31st, 2023
AspenNorth has not returned to SI since March 24th. We will be locking this thread unless AN should return and request it to be open again.
For those that have been following this thread, please keep in mind that what we say and more importantly how we say it has an impact on the people we are delivering that message to. I know we feel strongly about our beliefs and experiences. Just remember that the reason we are here is to survive infidelity. People are already in a tremendous amount of pain when they show up here. Let’s not pile on that pain.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
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