Lotus6065 (original poster new member #86399) posted at 11:17 PM on Thursday, April 2nd, 2026
I am second guessing that by filing for divorce (27 yrs married and this was a total shock) I am giving my wayward husband just want he wants. I discovered he had a two year affair, is still with AP and has no remorse. Counselor and most advice to me was for me to put up my boundaries, go no contact. I’m have done that but now I’m thinking I am giving him exactly what he wants, his life free of responsibility (from house, kids ages 20 & 23) and he can be with AP whenever he wants. I am regretting giving him that satisfaction. I am also having suck a hard time that the other woman won, he picked her over me. That feels horrible. I was a good supportive loving wife and he screwed me over. I just don’t want him to have any happiness. I am 10 months out from the discovery and divorce is in process. We are living separately. This is just so hard to accept the injustice. I’m trying to focus on the future…struggling
