I posted on general last week - in between all this we have been trying to reconcile since summer after WH affair with co worker.
Unfortunately hes dropped himself in it recently twice in the last 2 days where I've caught him out and hes blatantly lying about her. I know hes lying as seen things on his phone that point to this happening (he dosent know this ) nothing direct between them but things he has done involving her. When hes supposed to be NO CONTACT .
I think they are still chatting via WhatsApp but ive no proof and im in a position where I dont want to blow things up just before Christmas
My gut is telling me hes unblocking her on whatsapp when hes not at home then re blocking when at home. And they are still involved. Its easily done.
There's no way I could find this out unfortunately unless he accidentally forgot to re block her. Any ideas on how I could or any tactics? It could all just be my anxiety but ive a strong sense it isn't. Its a horrible feeling 😞 in September he admitted he missed chatting to her and the laughs. This really hurt .
Im feeling angry, on edge and anxious but id rather watch and wait for now, I can't do anything else yet :( its also my mums birthday over the Christmas period and I dont want to risk any upset just yet :(
[This message edited by Kittycatkitty at 9:50 PM, Wednesday, December 17th]
